Fathers are becoming more involved in childbirth and parenting. This added responsibility brings some new concerns to first-time fathers.

New dads often worry they will be inadequate. Taking a baby preparation class before delivery may help boost dad's confidence. Babies don't really break nor do they remember awkwardness. Dads can be just as responsive to crying or other baby cues as moms. It just takes time and practice to heighten dad's sensitivity. So, even if a dad has no experience with babies, in a few weeks he can be a pro.

Some dads feel excluded from caring for the baby because of their inability to breastfeed. There are plenty of ways that dads can participate in feeding. Dad can snuggle close to the baby and feed it a supplementary bottle or if bottles are not being used, dad can bring the baby to mom for nursing, sit and observe the breastfeeding and then rock the baby back to sleep. Keep in mind that breastfeeding is not the only daily activity. Dad can bathe, dress, hold and change the baby.

Dads may also feel that they are not spending enough time with the baby if they work long hours. The baby's schedule can be altered slightly so that baby is up when dad comes home. It is important to make the most of the time you do have to spend with the baby. When possible, include the baby in chores, errands or other activities.